Conquering the Sexual Peak
Everybody out there is gonna say that they have a healthy sex drive, but I think we know that this isn't always the case. In fact, men and women can't even agree on when in their lives they're gonna want sex the most. We refer to this natural indecision as the age at which men and woman reach their sexual peak. Our bodies produce certain hormones that cause us to go through puberty and spawn an interest in intimate pleasure. We've all heard about these changes, and if you haven't, you're probably too young to be on this site. Men and women peak at different times, but I don't think this has everything to do with those incredible hormonal changes.

Men experience their peak somewhere between 18-22, just in time to mess up our concentration for college. While women reach their maximum sexual velocity between 35 and 40, right about the time that men start losing theirs…nice. Is this God's idea of a cruel joke? I mean, how are we supposed to take advantage of this?!? I don't know how many of you were an 18 year old male, but I can't see too many of them having the savoir faire to entice a woman twice their age into bed. As for a 30 something women looking to hook up with a man in his prime, she's pushing her chances with the law. I can't help but think that both sexes are being cheated out of great, earth shattering, teeth-clenching sex.

Guys, do you remember being 18? Could you think about anything but sex? I know at that age we're still figuring out how to use the equipment, but we sure didn't have to worry about it breaking down. (Even with some of the beatings you'd give it.) You see, for us guys it's not the willingness to try things that's stops us from being great lovers, it's the stamina, the selfishness, or as we get older, the interest.

Physically, a woman doesn't really have to worry about being able to keep up with a man when she's 18. It's a woman's attitude towards sex that takes time to catch up. The way I see it is that women are capable of having sex, even good sex when they're in their teens physically. But when is the last time you heard a story about a young girl who knew exactly what she wanted in the bedroom and what to do to her man? (If you have heard this story my email address is…) Over time, women seem to grow into these roles. With experience and education, women become more open to the idea of becoming sexually empowered. You see, men think about sex so often it happens to them quickly and then tends to sputter out…no pun intended.

The problem: men and women tend to marry people around their same age. Thus causing possible marital problems due to the peak age vs. age of partner. There aren't many viable solutions for this problem. The only ones being:
1.Women at the age of 20 put dibs on a new born baby boy, when he reaches legal age marry him.
2. Men…Viagra.
3. Become gay…same sex, same sexual peak.

The only likely solution is to try to figure out a halfway point. To find a time when men are still capable and when women are beyond their timid phase. Do the math…around 27-30 is probably our best chance for us to having great sex at the same time. The way I figure it, the closest thing to great sex, I mean really great sex is to try and understand the state of sexuality of your partner and try to be accommodating their needs.

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