And The Oscar For Best Fake Orgasm…
Normally I write my articles with the hope that I am going to relate to everyone who reads it, however this week, for this particular article I'm going to focus my attention on just the female readers. Not that the males won't be able to relate…we just wish we couldn't. I'm talking about some women's desire to show off their budding acting skills that's buried inside them…the women known as "the fakers." That's right, women who fake their orgasms. I know that there's a small percentage of women out there who physically can't have an orgasm, this tiny bit of the population can ignore my following request: Women, please stop faking your orgasms!

Now guys I'm sorry to burst your stud ego but chances are that you've been with a woman who's faked it…you may even be with one right now. This strange practice that some women have adopted to make us feel better is really only hurting one person…themselves. Sure, as guys we want to be able to give you as many orgasms as you can handle and it would make us feel bad to find out that we're not as good as we think we are. However, what the man doesn't know won't hurt him. We'll just keep on doing what we're doing thinking everything is fine…this is where the problem occurs. Think about it girls, we'll just keep doing the same thing over and over again and if you have to fake it…we'll keep doing it over and over again.

Women listen to me, please, for your own sakes…stop faking it. If your partner isn't doing it right, tell him or her. Communication is the key in any relationship and it's even more important for a good sex life. Tell your partner what you like or how you like it. If they're a tough person to talk to about stuff like that, try starting with questions, ask them if there's anything you could do better. Get the ball rolling so to speak. Talk about it during sex if you want, be a little domineering. The point is to tell them that you need it a little different, or longer, or more often even.

You may have to be smart about it though, you can't just come out and say "Um, yeah you totally suck in bed…you're gonna need some pointers, now get a pen." You know your partner best, there is no one-way to let them know. Don't worry about hurting their feelings, they will thank you afterwards, or at least you'll be thanking yourself. Faking your orgasms is just foolish, and quite frankly a little embarrassing for your partner if they ever find out. However if you adopt a policy of being true to yourself and your partner there may not be need for faking it anymore, trust me you'll be glad you did.

What do you think? You know where to find me.

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