Wise words spoken by J, this week is dedicated to her.

How do you know so much about female orgasms? One thing you forgot to focus on in your article was the fact that for most women to have multiple orgasms, and I mean true multiple orgasms as in the deep "O", as in G-Spot, they need to have a clitoral orgasm first. For some reason that's what wakes up the elusive G-spot. So I think you were slightly off the mark in your reply to that woman. See, her boyfriend is doing the wrong thing. Once she's come, and I can only assume it's of the clitoral variety, he should just ignore Deloris and focus on deep penetration instead. She can take the reigns at this point, climb on top of her boy toy and get the angle just right.
I'm telling you, once she masters this her sex life will never be the same again. That's my not so bold opinion anyway.

Smiles,
J

 

J,
It is always nice to receive a reply from one of my millions of fans. Sometimes the readers need to hear it from the horse's mouth, so to speak. Not that I think you or any of my readers are horses. We all know horses can read but do not have the opposable thumbs necessary for things like turning knobs on doors and typing to access the prophetic writings of the authors of BdotO. In fact to clarify things more for the readers AND because this topic is of import to men and women alike (and other hominids) I will use this week's column to explore and continue to educate the men and women across the globe.*

 

J, you are wise in the ways of womenhood and I humbly pass on your opinion to the millions of readers out there. You know what, they need it.

 

Although, I would like to address your silly assumption that I was in error when answering Keykat's letter. I steered clear of the G-Spot, as most men mistakenly do, because this topic was covered in fine form, by my partner in crime Andrew.

So, now that you have familiarized yourself on the subject, I will provide some hard facts about that fabled and ne'ery reached landmark, the G-Spot.

 

1. WHAT IS THE G-SPOT?

The Grafenberg spot is an area on the anterior or front wall of the vagina, between the opening and the cervix, which is often found to be extremely sensitive to stimulation. It is hypothesized that the G-spot is either 1) a bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris, or 2) a gland or series of glands that produces lubrication. It is thought to be perhaps analagous to the prostate gland in men.

2. WHAT IS FEMALE EJACULATION?

Female ejaculation is the expelling of fluid from or around the urethra. This fluid is not urine, and is often accompanied by a powerful orgasm. Stimulation of the G-Spot is thought to potentially cause this.

3. HOW DO I FIND THE G-SPOT?

Insert one or two fingers in the vagina with the palm facing the pubic bone. Gently bend your fingers 'forward' so that they stroke the anterior wall of the vagina. You may feel a raised spot or series of ridges, or you may feel nothing in particular. The woman may find this extremely pleasurable, or have an urge to urinate, or both. Stroking this spot with varying degrees of pressure will tell you if you've got it or not.

4. DOES EVERYONE HAVE A G-SPOT?

No. Your mileage may vary. Just as some woman find clitoral stimulation more or less pleasurable than others, G-spot response varies from woman to woman, and some may find it unpleasant or simply not special.

Live long and for Pete's sake, help your partner find the G-Spot.
Dr. Know

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