Dr.Know,
I've been dating this girl for like 6 weeks now and every time I try to kiss her she turns her head. When I ask her what the deal is she just says she isn't ready...should I stick it out or is this chick giving me a sign that she isn't interested. On top of all that I know her last boyfriend...he was getting action from her after the second date.
Blueballs in Boise
B in B -
I hate to say it. Well, actually I don't. Just in case there are some
sensitive people reading I put the disclaimer out there.
Her ex is still probably getting lots of action. He sounds confident,
you don't.Your situation is one of two things:
You or Her.
YOU
You are looking for sex only. THIS IS WRONG. Sounds like you're
looking for lots of action.. When you look for sex, you never find it.
Unless your paying for it. And that can get heavy on the pocketbook.
Another question - How in the world do you know that her Ex was getting
some after the first date? What kind of a pervert are you? Did you
stalk this girl? Be honest with yourself man, if you are in it for sex,
get out and go find someone that wants the same. You disgust me.HER
Her intentions are probably honourable. She likes you man. Stop
forcing the sex issue. She is afraid that you're going to get some sex
and bail. Again, sounds to me like you are. There are no rules (well,
some women insist there are - but I'm telling you there are NOT). She
wants to take things slow. If you want her, then take things slow.
Make her comfortable. Talk to her, more than 'why ain't we making with
the kissin and stuff'. And no matter what NEVER tell her you heard she
was a freak. She probably knows you've heard the stories, which is why
she's moving slow.And finally - Grow up.
*sigh* let me know how it works out.
Dr. Know
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